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View Article  Christmas at the Manor...

What a lovely Christmas Day! My family used to make a toast with a glass of sherry at 11:00 with my grandparents and I feel very privileged to now be making the toast at Valerie Manor with all of the residents and families. My mum and dad of course made it very special as mum, ‘Robin’, dressed up as father Christmas and handed out all of the presents to the residents which they thoroughly enjoyed. Mum then had to rush back home to cook our family a traditional Christmas Day lunch for the evening! I would also like to thank all of the dedicated staff who worked on Christmas Day and over the festive period and helped to make the residents Christmas very special.


View Article  Festive Week Summary
It is Christmas evening and the residents at Valerie Manor are going to be having a restful day today watching White Christmas following the enjoyable week they have had and in preparation for our Christmas Day tomorrow..... Well, that’s while we enjoy the special home made Valerie Manor Christmas Cake that Maria has been preparing over the past few weeks for the residents!

On Sunday 20th December we all enjoyed having a mulled wine and a mince pie or two with our friends and families at Valerie Manor. It was such a lovely occasion; I love to see the residents with all of their families at this special time. We had a DVD of 2009 at Valerie Manor showing in the background along with Christmas music so that the residents and their families could look back on what we had all done together over the past year.

On Tuesday 22nd December Reverend Challis delivered a wonderful traditional Christmas Services to the residents and staff in our lounge. What a lovely service that the residents enjoyed with members from Reverend Challis’s congregation. We were also joined by the Reverend's wife and daughter. Although his daughter was very shy she managed to sing us Away in a Manager with her daddy which was lovely to hear. Following the service we enjoyed a coffee with some homemade Christmas biscuits from Maria – they also went down a treat!

Thank you very much to Reverend Challis for giving a truly memorable service for us all at Valerie Manor.

Merry Christmas to You All!

View Article  Can Gerry Robinson Fix Dementia Care?
I am sure that many of you would have watched the recent two part documentary on BBC 2 with Gerry Robinson. Before the programme started I received several calls from my family and friends to tell me to watch it which I managed to do last week. The programme had also been talked about around Valerie Manor by staff and relatives.

If you did watch the programme you will understand when I say that it saddened me to see some of the clips in the programme and I spent most of the time with tears in my eyes as the programme was very dear to my heart through personal family experiences of homes.

I have already discussed the programme with some relatives and I do believe there are always lessons to be learnt. We are already planning a menu and activities review in late January / early February 2010 which will explore some of the areas covered by the programme, including staff eating with the residents at meal times (which we tried for the first time this week!) and trying to enable residents to become more involved in the day to day running of their home if they would like to. I will keep you updated following the review and would like to thank everyone that has talked to me about it already.

You can find out more about the program on the BBC website; http://www.bbc.co.uk/headroom/newsandevents/programmes/gerry_robinson.shtml

View Article  Brief Children in Need Summary
Just a brief summary to say that our final total raised for Children in Need was £415! Thank you so much to everyone who donated and supported the residents and staff at Valerie Manor.


View Article  A Christmas Carol from The Towers Convent School


There were tears in everyone’s eyes including mine while the very talented girls from The Towers Convent School sung well known Christmas Carols to the residents at Valerie Manor on Wednesday morning. It was so lovely to see the residents singing along to the Carols and enjoying the wonderful performance from the pupils. There were two spectacular solo’s and a very talented violinist who I was told afterwards has already reached grade 8 which is such an achievement. I would like to say thank you to all the staff and pupils for giving up their time and making a very special morning for the residents at Valerie Manor.


View Article  Let’s Dance ! (Hassocks) Christmas entertainment at the Manor...

Weds 9th & Sat 12th December

On Wednesday 9th December some Let’s Dance pupils were rushing to their mums after school to be transported to Valerie Manor to entertain.  At the same time some adult pupils were jumping in their cars to do the same !

Our ladies and gentlemen donned Christmas hats and most enjoyed a tipple whilst waiting for the entertainers to arrive.  The three little ones stole everyone’s hearts performing Good Toes, Naughty Toes.. The Puppet.. and Sing a Song of Sixpence. Slightly older pupils went down well with their costumes and make-up performing Just Can’t Wait to be King. The adults shone with Lullaby of Broadway.. Shakin’ the Blues Away.. a Salsa number.. and December ’63.  Jan entertained us with three songs in between the dances.  Her dresses were a delight... a different one for each song !

Everyone joined in with Rudolf the Red Nosed Reindeer with our ladies and gentlemen using our hand bells.

Wanting to spoil everyone another group of dancers visited on Saturday 12th.. this time we enjoyed Danny Kaye’s Thumbelina, Tommy Steele’s Little White Bull an upbeat number from the musical Hairspray a ballet number called ‘Wild Swans’.... variety being the spice of life the group performed to Joseph and his Technicolor Dream coat finishing with singing Any Dream Will Do whilst using sign language.

On behalf of Zoe and the Residents of Valerie Manor I would like to say a very big THANK YOU to those lovely people for giving up their time to entertain for us at this very busy, special, time of the year.

Robin, Let’s Dance ! (Hassocks)

You can view more photos from the events on our Picasa web album...


View Article  A Magical Valerie Manor...


Christmas at Valerie Manor has begun! I would like to say thank you to Sally–Ann, Marmalade and her friends and family for spending the day at Valerie Manor on the 6th December and making it come to life for Christmas! You can see from the photos that they have done a fantastic job in making the home look very special and festive for the residents to enjoy. We have lots going on throughout December and you can find the details on our activities page.


View Article  Valerie Manor Canvas Number 2 - Poppies


The residents with the help of volunteer Marmalade have recently completed their second piece of artwork. I must say that we love ‘Poppies’ and it looks stunning in our corridor and can be seen and enjoyed by everyone as they come down to the dining room. Of course, Marmalade is already planning the 3rd masterpiece but this one may take a bit longer as we have so much planned for the festive season! I am very excited that the extension will be filled with artwork that the residents and Marmalade have completed, what an achievement for everyone.


View Article  New friends...
We're very lucky at Valerie Manor to have Lola, a beautiful black labrador, and volunteer owner Derrie come to visit us from Pets As Therapy. They visited for the first time on 26th November and have asked if they could come back every week to spend more time with the residents. The residents love their company and not only enjoy stroking Lola and having the comfort of her being so close it also generates a lot of conversation and memories for them all. Several residents had memories and stories to tell about dogs that they have owned in the past or have known throughout their lives which was so lovely to hear about.

Thank you to Derrie and Lola and we look forward to seeing a lot more of you both at the Manor.

Pets As Therapy is a national charity and is unique in that it provides temperament assessed/vaccinated PAT Dogs and PAT Cats with registered volunteers to hospitals, hospices, residential care homes, day centres, special needs schools and many other establishments, providing comfort, companionship and therapy. There are approximately 4,500 PAT Dogs and 108 PAT Cats bringing benefit to more than 130,000 people of all ages every single week throughout the UK.

Find out more on their website at; www.petsastherapy.org
View Article  November Activities Summary
Hello again,

A very busy month was enjoyed in November.  We tried to bring a little sunshine to our day by watching the Maypole and Country Dancing from the July Garden Party.  On Remembrance Sunday everyone enjoyed watching the Service and then singing along to our lovely Vera Lynn.  A visit from the Steyning Guide Company was really uplifting.  Our ladies and gentlemen love the younger generation taking time out to join us in thinking about those families and friends that were lost in the wars.

‘Mind Benders’ took the shape of...Famous Couples, The Alphabet Game and Closure Phrases to name but a few. Hoopla, Tin Can Alley and Target Toss helped with movement.

We had  three Themed Days......Indian Curry Day (pictured)......some residents who chose to, enjoyed a Curry.  During the morning Indian music was played for our Exercises which involved Indian movements.  Indian costumes were worn by the carers and Bhindi’s  and beads worn by everyone.  Emma was enjoying the music and movement so much we nearly had to forego lunch !!

Our second Theme Day was Thanksgiving where Roast Turkey was enjoyed and ‘Hand and Feet’ Turkeys were made.  Our last special day was St.Andrew’s Day

A special menu again and The Edinburgh Tattoo and Scotland from the Air was enjoyed.

The highlight of the month must have been the BBC Children in Need Sponsored Activities... please see the separate reports;
Children in Need
Children in Need (update) 

See you again soon. 

Robin x